Tag: Long Distance

How to decide when to go see your Girlfriend

Paul
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How do you know?

It’s always a question that I’ve heard from other Long Distance couples.   They always ask when do you know you want to go see this person you’ve been talking to for quite a while.   I’ve heard people say they have been talking for over a year and wanted to meet each.   My personal experience has been 7 months.   After talking with her for 2 or 3 months, I had to go see her.   So I did all the work to buy a plane ticket.   Each situation is different and you have to decide when you want the right time is for you.   I’m going to talk about how you will know when it’s time to meet!

You click!

This is the first way to know when you should move to meet that special someone.   You get to talking and know that you just click with them.   You can talk about almost anything and you enjoy just talking to them.   I personally will tell you that it was something that I felt I needed to do.   We just had way to much fun talking on video chats and texting each other constantly.  You’ll know what it happens that you will want to see if the relationship will go even further.

You smile more!

This one is almost always part of the experiences.  You start to smile more.   I started smiling more every time I thought about my girlfriend and we just had way to much teasing each other.  It will be different for each person but you will have friends and family see how happy you are.   Even though it can be different for couples this one seemed to be me from the very beginning.

If these sound like you, you are more than ready to go see the other person and buying that ticket or traveling to go see them.  I’m sure there are even more ways to know when you are ready.   This is a small blog post about my experiences and how I knew I wanted to go meet my girlfriend.   Each situation is different but I knew I had to go see her to see if we had the right chemistry in person.

Have you seen your other half?   How did you know?  Why not leave a comment and talk about how you knew for others to know your experiences?

 

3 Ways to Transfer Money Internationally

Paul
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Something To Consider!

Before I start talking about sending money abroad to friends or family.   The first thing I must at least point out and I have had this philosophy when I started dating in an LDR. Never send money to anyone until you have physically met them.   There are plenty of dating romance scams out there and until you’ve met them then you just don’t know if it’s a guy acting like a girl or someone who just wants you to be their ATM.   Either way, you’ll know quite well after you’ve met them how they will treat your gifts of money.   Either way, I always suggest that you be careful who you send your money to and trust fully until you know for sure.

Why send Money in an LDR?

There are plenty of reasons why you might be sending money to your Girlfriend/Boyfriend.   Each reasons can be a simple as wanting to help them out with expenses, especially if you are traveling internationally.   The plane ticket alone can be expensive to some.   So couples sometimes want to help the other person by help paying for the ticket or help when something comes up.   It could easily be that they want to save money for that wedding or save money together for a goal.   Long Distance Relationships have obstacles to over come and each one of them can be a challenge for just one person.  I reiterate, be careful who you send money to!

PayPal

The first way I can come up with is PayPal.   I’ve used PayPal in the past and they’ve done a good job at sending money to other countries and changing currencies.   I personally don’t like how much they charge to exchange the money to another currency but it has never failed with me.   I know it’s widely used world wide and can be very beneficial for most people.   I just don’t like the fees that are associated when you send money abroad.

TransferWise

TransferwiseI’ve started to use this because of some really good features.  You can have direct deposits into this account and the fees are really small compared to Paypal.   You can get a card for free to use abroad.   It acts almost like an actual bank card.  I recently got mine and I definitely will be trying this out when I go see my girlfriend in the future.  You also can send money directly to someones bank account if you have that information available.   The rates at which they charge you to exchange money is far smaller than anywhere I’ve seen and can save you money in the long run.  It’s works just as fast as anything else I’ve used.

Xoom

Xoom a PayPal ServiceXoom is part of Paypal but they tend to be far cheaper than PayPal and has some great services such as sending money the same day.  You can send money through direct deposit, have them pick it up or deliver the cash to them.  Xoom has some good features but they also have higher exchange rates and other fees that you will have to pay.   It is a good service and can be good for those who might need some way to send money.    I personally wouldn’t recommend this one.   I’d still go with Transferwise but they can be used for a lot of scenarios.

More +

There are several services that can transfer and exchange currency to send to friends and family.   I’ve only listed the ones that I’ve tried and thus it’s a short list of ways to do just that.   I am sure there are others and I encourage you to comment and tell people your experiences with these and other services that you’ve used to transfer money to your girlfriend/boyfriend .   Why not tell people about this post and tell them how they can transfer money internationally.