Dating and online relationship!
I’ve been having a little success at the so called online dating sites such as Christian Mingle and Perfect Match (those scary Affiliate links). Sites that work well for looking for a long term relationship for those who just don’t have alot of time to go to bar scenes or go out every night just to find someone. I am not here to review these sites in truthfulness, I am here to talk about those silly mind games people play on these sites.
The silent treatment!
This one is one of those that usually the thing that most people do to be polite and say they aren’t interested or because they want to play hard to get. It is something that usually young people usually do but that doesn’t mean older guys or girls will not do this just to feel like they have the power. I am sure this has happened to most guys or even girls out trying to find that special relationship.
Flirting but nothing more!
I am probably either been a victim of this or have done it in the past. Sometimes we flirt just to be a little selfish and I do know. In the past, I did it for the excitation of seeing who is interested and wanting to test the waters sort of speak. I however have learned that when women do it when they have a boyfriend, it is a very bad sign to interfere with a couple. You really should just walk away and wait till they break up or find someone else.
No rules!
Women and some men think there is a rules to dating. Such as you can’t call them immediately after getting their number. This to some women who think they may come off clingy or to desperate, is the main reason I don’t understand them. I for one mean what I say and say what I mean. If I tell you are beautiful and I love your eyes, that my friend is truth. You best advice is to just throw those silly rules out he window and try to do it the right way!
Quit over Analyzing!
This one usually applies just to women but I am sure some guys sometimes over analyze what a girl said or did and you are trying to figure out what it actually means. If you have a question then it is just simpler to ask him or her what they meant from that comment or question. You will be much more open to finding that special someone when you don’t over think it!
These are what I’ve tried to do and not play those mind games that most people do because they are testing the waters. I am not here to test waters but to find that special someone!
